The Y (Why) is O (On) U (You)

What is your why?  Each new day - what is it that motivates you, or are you even motivated at all?  Too many people feel as though they don't have a choice, so they go through the motions from day to day, feeling drained and disillusioned with life.  It is time to ask the question - WHY? 

That one word is your motivator and no one can answer it, but you.  It is how you see yourself, where you are going in life, your goals, your dreams, and your beliefs.  If you are constantly complaining and thinking negatively - your WHY needs attention.  Instead of blaming other people, situations and circumstances, try readjusting the lens to see the beauty in life, because it is there in spite of.... 

I have three beautiful granddaughters and one day their father  posted a picture of them with a caption that said - "This is my why."  What is it that's important to you?  We all have dreams even though they get lost in all  of the everyday "stuff."  Your job is to not let that happen; your job is to keep that vision, that dream, that thing that ignites the fire in your soul, in front of you. How, is not the concern - you will get that once your WHY is clear.

Many people feel as though they do not have control over why they do things.  You might say - "I have to go to work to pay bills" or "I have to stay in this relationship for my children" or "I have no choice - this is just the way it is."  Nothing is further from the truth.  We always have a choice, even if that choice is accepting a situation and moving on. 

Getting to your WHY requires work; it requires a complete assessment of your belief system, an open mind to ask why you believe certain things, and the courage to alter negative and limiting beliefs.  Often people don't even realize what their reasoning is for their beliefs; they just know it is how they always believed, and in more cases than not, they are afraid to consider anything that goes against the grain of those beliefs.  Therein lies the challenge!

Once you make a decision to change your WHY, you make a decision to change your destiny!!